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Safetyhit
That was impressive commentary by both of you, very enlightening. While most of what you two stated in on par with the accounts relayed to me, one thing I noticed however that seems a bit different is your overall respect for them as a whole despite their shortcomings.
Honestly I didn't get a lot of that sort of feedback from my group of individuals. There was respect for their bravery to an extent, but frustrations seemed to override in the end. In fact more than one who worked closely with them could care less if they were all wiped from the earth today. One fellow in particular was always delighted to call in air strikes whenever possible hoping for maximum result to all in the area.
You see the more he worked with them the more he enjoyed being able to kill them when possible. Yes they were on the other side but he and others had no respect for the populace in general, friend or foe.
I think it's much more complicated than the surface element would suggest. Like Ogres, onions, or cakes, the Middle Eastern culture and particularly the Afghan culture, has layers. Often, my contribution to these discussions are following a SOAP format. As it seems that many are chomping at the bit to offer the S phase, I skip to the O-Objective. For those without any experience it is important that the facts are relayed to them. So with that in mind..
I can certainly understand the frustration conveyed to you by these SOF personnel. Everyone is different, all walks of life end up in teams everywhere and there's rarely a universal mentality. What makes the men different is their focus on mission at hand, that they can argue over the emotional aspect of morality and such, but all know everyone is dialed in and doing the job when it counts. Yeah, I'll admit watching a Cobra or A-10 drop down for CAS will make anyone's dick move...especially when you're sure you've met your fate. But I draw very few connections to my sentiment towards the enemy and my sentiment towards our strugglingm child-like host military.
Keep in mind too that we are shaped by our experience which can change by something as simple as what side of a river you lived on. My experience in A-Stan was in a large AO in the southeast border area. My brother, the northwest. And colleagues the northeast. What we all saw were cultures that in no way reflected on each other as being unified by any single cause, least of all any unity based on being fellow "countrymen", as very few recognize international boundaries. This was primarily a US failure to begin with and continues to be the quicksand our hard fought efforts sink into. Even if you somehow got the Pashtun in Helmand to agree to abide by a central government, as soon as they saw a Tajik or Hazara in power, they would rebel. With a southern Pashtun as the President (Karzai), it's no wonder the Nuristani tribes are keeping the coals burning hot in the north. And it will always be this way.
As to the things you mentioned that some guys find disgusting, it's hard for me to comment. Again, culture has taught some of these folks that this is acceptable...and in some ways, it works for them. While I'm not a fan of the pedophilic nature, the boys are lining up to volunteer for the job. Like the teenage prostitutes in Thailand, many consider it a fast track to financial and social stability, a right of passage to others. And with tribalism in mind (the baca bahzi is much more rampant in the north, looked down on in the south) the ones doing the kidnapping don't see their victims as anything but subhuman filth to be subjected to their own will. Egg on our face when these police chiefs are put in power by someone in DC who signs off without meeting, who is then turned loose with little accountability.
I don't know though. Right and wrong is in the eye of the beholder and my job had little to do with defending American morals.
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