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26 Inf
I sense some frustration there. LOL
I'm also kind of frustrated. Here in the heartland, the Bible Belt if you would, I have a daughter who is a gifted stringed bass player. Throughout her middle school and high school years she was in the state honors orchestra every year, she did the same with her solos. She's also a gifted athlete, her sport is swimming. League champion in several events every year. Currently she is attending college on music and swimming scholarships. She's a pretty good kid who was scared to walk to school by herself because of assholes calling her 'ni**er. At school, she's been taunted by white kids, and scorned by blacks, either because she's biracial and therefore not black enough, or because she's a Tom. (I always thought that it would be funny, and appropriate, if she had unloaded on the skinny black girls who gave her shit and shoved her around, my daughter is an animal in the gym) I've been to numerous houses explaining to folks that I don't appreciate the way they, or their kids, have treated my daughter. Somehow, when it is a big hulking white dude doing the talking instead of a scared black girl, it always was a joke, or a misunderstanding.
So, I'm f#$cking tired of it also.
Look up 'ethnocentricity.' We all have it, some more than others. I've raised 3 black kids and I like to think I'm fairly honest. I'll admit that in a group setting I gravitate toward white folks unless I have a bond of some sort with the members of the group who are other races.
In early America, the Irish and the Italian immigrants, fellow Caucasians, were scorned and treated like shit. Eventually, they dispersed, lost their accents, and melded into America. Skin pigment hasn't allowed that to happen with other groups.
We are less that 55 years out from the 'end' of segregation in the United States. As far as I'm concerned, there are still too many folks around who would drain their swimming pool and start over if they knew a black had been in it. Most of you aren't that way, but to deny it is perpetuating a falsehood.
None of the above excuses baby mama's, absent fathers, or violence.
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