Where Have The Good Men Gone?

120mm, your being logical, STOP IT!

I don't see how having sex with a woman and supporting her for a few years makes her entitled to half my earnings/possessions when she didn't make much before I met her and being with me is an upgrade to her standard of living. I also am a firm believer in father's rights - something that is neglected in the extreme in this country.

To much to comment on, before I go to work, but...

Fair is fair, call it childish, but standing by, and taking it up the A** does not make you a "man".

I'm, with LB,
A co-worker of mine is currently going thru a divorce, and while I have no love for the guy, what happening, and will likely happen is BS.

"Christian" church going types, blended family, even went to Africa on a missionary trip.

She got pregnant by another man:eek: Guess who's gonna be payin for it?

Being lied to, trapped, and taken advantage of, and having the "law" on your side, then taking it, and declaring your manhood, only encourages more women to do it.

Bob

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Originally Posted by 120mm

Bitterness about how unfair marriage and divorce is from the male viewpoint is the #1 indicator that a male is actually a child in an adult body.

If you stick your dick in her, even once, a real man takes responsibility for her, the kids you make and any and all fallout from the failed relationship.

Too many so-called "men" are not smart, or mature enough to understand that. And if she turns out to be bat shit crazy, guess what? You're an idiot for having chosen to stick your dick in some bat shit crazy woman.

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Some of those bat shit crazy women hide their tendencies quite well, at least until they say "I do." Of course, we all know what the unspoken portion of that statement is. :fie:

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Originally Posted by 120mm

Bitterness about how unfair marriage and divorce is from the male viewpoint is the #1 indicator that a male is actually a child in an adult body.

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And what if a female is bitter over a similar situation?

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Originally Posted by variablebinary

I don't find "modern women" big city women to be all that attractive, and 9 times out of 10 that is the perspective articles like that are written from

When I got married, it was to a small town girl that had a degree, but kept her values, gave me babies, and actually wanted to raise them instead of wanting nannies and infant daycare.

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I couldn't agree more, and I have the same type of girl you got, one who raises the kids as her career and likes it that way. It's getting more so a good woman is hard to find, IMHO.

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Originally Posted by variablebinary

I don't find "modern women" big city women to be all that attractive, and 9 times out of 10 that is the perspective articles like that are written from

A: I don't care about their career

B: I don't watch the Bachelor

C: No way in hell I am going to deal with a 3 hour commute just get .10 acres of land, a million dollar mortgage and access to "good schools"

D: I'm not waiting for you to find your career for 10 years, and have to deal with dried up eggs, and fertility pills.

When I got married, it was to a small town girl that had a degree, but kept her values, gave me babies, and actually wanted to raise them instead of wanting nannies and infant daycare.

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Very well said, man.

I'm still curious about this:

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Originally Posted by 120mm

Bitterness about how unfair marriage and divorce is from the male viewpoint is the #1 indicator that a male is actually a child in an adult body.

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So... what if a female is bitter over a similar situation?

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Originally Posted by Skyyr

I'm still curious about this:



So... what if a female is bitter over a similar situation?

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I think females can suffer from the same pre-adult "syndrome" as males. It may look different (instead of XBOX and PS3 addiction, it is fashion and OMG a new Purse addiction)

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Originally Posted by chadbag

I think females can suffer from the same pre-adult "syndrome" as males. It may look different (instead of XBOX and PS3 addiction, it is fashion and OMG a new Purse addiction)

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I'm with ya, I was just wanting clarification from 120mm on this, as it was his comment.