There isn't enough room on this forum to offer all the examples and reasons you are wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by 120mm
Just like the serial killer who obtains his victims through various methods, many men end up victim to the wrong woman in a similar way.
My favorite single example came from when I used to do security clearance for government employees.
The guy who applied for the job was married for 5 years before his wife took interest in another man. Under the advice of her "friends" she filed for divorce and reported him for domestic violence which she was told would help her in the custody case. Basically the man's life was destroyed. He spent time in jail, lost his job and all his money was spent on legal defense fees.
He was lucky in that his ex wife finally admitted the truth after she was caught in a few lies. When he applied for the job he brought with him a letter written by his ex wife explaining how all the charges our background check would produce were false and that she lied in order to get a better custody arrangement.
For 5 years this man DID take responsibility for the woman he married. His only crime was not being as interesting as the "other guy" to a female who didn't accept anything close to the same responsibility to their marriage or children.
His days spent in jail can never be returned to him. His money spent in legal fees was never compensated. His job was lost and even with "the letter" a lot of employers take a "where there is smoke, there is fire" attitude when considering his employment. A couple people in his review had the opinion that he simply "got away with it." And probably the worst thing of all, despite all that, his ex wife has custody of the children and he pays her alimony and child support.
