New Family member. With a bit of why some people really suck.

[Endur]

When I first responded to this thread, I had only read about 1.5 pages. That was enough to completely baffle me. This afternoon, while cutting my yard, I gave it a little more thought. So I have a question for you and the rest of the well-wishers in this thread.

Have you, or anyone here who's handing out congratulations, ever stopped to think that maybe the reason this child is fatherless is because of your "non-standard" lifestyle? I mean seriously, who the hell would get engaged to or want to raise a child with a married man's mistress? You've painted him as a deadbeat dad, but for all we know, he's a semi-normal dude that realized his fiance was a freak that wasn't going to change her lifestyle. Maybe the idea of staying with her while she is banging another guy, that also happens to be married, was more than he could take. Maybe seeing seeing said fiance-banger present at his child's birth was just enough for him to finally say, f*** it, and get the hell out of this screwed up situation. This story has been framed as if you're a Knight in shining armor, she's a damsel in distress, he's a douchebag and as if the whole sordid mess is normal. That shit ain't normal. Just a thought.

I am wondering the same thing. I am also disturbed at the fact the OP was an elected official at one time. God damn kidding me? I am leaning with Safety and might have to just lurk for a while.

[Moose-Knuckle]

I am wondering the same thing. I am also disturbed at the fact the OP was an elected official at one time. God damn kidding me? I am leaning with Safety and might have to just lurk for a while.

No offense to the OP intended here, but since when has being an elected official somehow quantified morality? It has been my experience of the exact opposite to be true.

[SteyrAUG]

Have you, or anyone here who's handing out congratulations, ever stopped to think that maybe the reason this child is fatherless is because of your "non-standard" lifestyle? I mean seriously, who the hell would get engaged to or want to raise a child with a married man's mistress? You've painted him as a deadbeat dad, but for all we know, he's a semi-normal dude that realized his fiance was a freak that wasn't going to change her lifestyle. Maybe the idea of staying with her while she is banging another guy, that also happens to be married, was more than he could take. Maybe seeing seeing said fiance-banger present at his child's birth was just enough for him to finally say, f*** it, and get the hell out of this screwed up situation. This story has been framed as if you're a Knight in shining armor, she's a damsel in distress, he's a douchebag and as if the whole sordid mess is normal. That shit ain't normal. Just a thought.

Much as I try and be positive and supportive at times like this...objectively you might be right. If "I" was in those shoes I'm not even sure I'd show up for the birth. Betray me like that when we are supposed to be getting married and ties get cut and you should consider yourself on your own. IF it actually is like that, dude even manned up and offered to pay support.

But I'm not there so I can't say who is at fault for sure.

[Moose-Knuckle]

I may have missed this somewhere but Kwelz could you be the biological father here due to the physical nature of y'alls relationship?

I'm not trying to pry any intimate details, merely looking at it from a legal perspective.

[Endur]

No offense to the OP intended here, but since when has being an elected official somehow quantified morality? It has been my experience of the exact opposite to be true.

They do not, but take this whole scenario and ask yourself this, is that someone you would vote for or want representing you? I am not judging the OP, and to each his own, but none of that is screaming family values to me. Considering what MT was putting down; sleeping with another mans woman, is something no man should condone.

[Koshinn]

Both Freya and Momma are doing really well. Right now she is at her parents while we get all the logistics worked out. But they have health issues and can't help much so we want to get her here as soon as possible.

Ok so I have got a number of PMs asking me about the Tranny prank story. Instead of replying to everyone I will just post it here.

As some people on here know I am very involved in politics. Much less so now I guess but I was involved in, employed in, and elected to local state and national positions within various parts of the GOP. A few years back we had the National Young Republican convention in Indianapolis. I was heavily involved in the organisation of this event. One of my friends here in the state was working for the other side of the party elections we were having. He is also what I refer to as a false christian. He will preach what he believes but not follow those teachings himself. Even though he was in a serious relationship he would try to hook up with every girl he met. He was also a bit homophobic, although at times some of us wondered if that was a bit of overcompensation to hide some feelings.

Anyway he was being a real dick throughout the event and did a few things that I feel crossed the line. So I decided to get a bit of revenge. I called up a female friend of mine. Specifically she is a pre-op transsexual who has been taking hormones since she was in her mid teens. At the time she was 24 and if you saw her you would hit on her. Literally there was no way to tell. So I got her to come to one of our events. Start talking to him and his nature took the lead. Me and a couple of his other friends staked out near his room and we burst in the moment he discovered the... Well the surprise. She even used her phone to take a picture of his face at the moment he saw it.

We didn't go spreading it around or use it politically. But it was a hell of a prank.

Best prank ever.

Btw, you still interested in those books, man? Just PM your address and you can have them free.

[Palmguy]

I am wondering the same thing. I am also disturbed at the fact the OP was an elected official at one time. God damn kidding me? I am leaning with Safety and might have to just lurk for a while.

No offense to the OP intended here, but since when has being an elected official somehow quantified morality? It has been my experience of the exact opposite to be true.

I read his statement as that he was elected to positions within the GOP; as in the party/organization, not to government office.

[Voodoochild]

This thread has gone on long enough. Some of you need to grow up and act like an adult rather than a child.