For a long time I found the opposite to be true. My home had become my grandparents house and I was always welcome. I was fortunate that they both lived long lives into their 80s and 90s and every time I returned to Iowa things were "mostly" the same.
Everything changes, but thankfully they don't seem to change as fast in Iowa. It was always a place where I could still know the name of the family that lived at every third house no matter what part of town I was in. Most of the things I grew up with were still there.
Of course now that my grandmother recently passed and the house has been sold things are different. My grandfather gave me a key to the house back in 1981 and I had kept it all these years. The current owner graciously allowed the family into the house (as he's currently restoring and upgrading it and not actually living there) since it is still full of items belonging to my family.
I grabbed the things that were most important to me two years ago when I found out the house would be sold so I really didn't find much else this time around, it was more of a "one last walk through" than anything else. I pulled out my wallet and tried the old key, it was kinda sad to realize the locks had been changed. Really drove home the point that this was no longer ours.
It's hard to be a ACLU hating, philosophically Libertarian, socially liberal, fiscally conservative, scientifically grounded, agnostic, porn admiring gun owner who believes in self determination.
Chuck, we miss ya man.
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