Durability is a mixed bag - for the applications you're talking about, moving towards SLA is going to be needed. You can make some remarkable durable FDM parts, particularly with some of the more exotic filaments (Ultem, etc.), and some of the other smaller widgets where flexibility is nice, basic/cheap TPU is actually somewhat amazing (but lacks tensile strength). The standard generic use is just cranking out PLA drafts of other parts you can use to validate.
With a good SLA setup, I have friends that have made their own quite operational lowers and glock bottom halves (I'm waiting to see what they can do with the new Sig designs), definitely solid stuff (slapped an X300 on the glock bottom and hammered a nail into a board to prove a point - ran like a Glock), so if you're looking to do the big investment, that would be the answer. Print times can be really long, and there's more to learn about supports and slicing involved, but if you're wanting to make functional parts with tight tolerances, that's typically the answer because resin is just tougher.
A basic FDM may still be a cost-effective port of entry just to learn more about it.
Unfortunately, I'm not the best resource - we have herds of already owned printers at work I can use, and rely on that for my drone shenanigans... but I know comparatively little about buying the silly things.
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