Originally Posted by
thepatriot2705
Like the title says, how can I quit believing in myself? It only sets me up for failure and disappointment. I’m not good at anything and have failed at obtaining a single dream of mine
Your goals are either unrealistic or your efforts are not sufficient or some combination of both.
My genuine "care about a person" advice is find what makes you happy and figure out how to do that as often as possible.
I used to be F ing BROKE living in Ft. Lauderdale but I could afford to go free diving (snorkling) 5 days a week so I regularly ate lobster...I loved that and it made being F ing BROKE tolerable.
Quit trying to live somebody else's life or you fairy tale version of a perfect life and just start living. Doesn't mean don't try...but if you don't succeed don't let it be the end of everything.
Lots of people on their dying breath would love to trade places with you. Their heads are so full of the possibilities of life if only they were in the situation you are currently in. If you were dying of some incurable disease that would be different and even then you should be trying to max out as many good days as you can steal away from death.
It's hard to be a ACLU hating, philosophically Libertarian, socially liberal, fiscally conservative, scientifically grounded, agnostic, porn admiring gun owner who believes in self determination.
Chuck, we miss ya man.
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