It can be tough with the 2nd/younger child. They get to observe and learn at a different pace so a lot of what you established with boy #1 is out the window with boy #2.
Our boy is smarter than I am and stubborn. He does thing his way on his terms. He wouldn't let me help him ride a bike, but in preschool he taught himself to ride a bike and then had his teacher call us to school so he could show us what he learned. He lives in a very black and white world at times. It's cost him some, but it's also helped him earn other things.
In his middle / early high school days, he started to get a little mouthy with mom and said some things he would never dare tell me. We had a long walk and I explained that while she was his mom, she was my wife and if I ever heard him talk to my wife again that way, the road was going to get really rough really fast. Parenting is a tag team sport.
In the end, we know he loves us both but he's a handful and I pity the college professors and coaches that have him now. He'll work them hard.
Looking forward to seeing what sort of man we raised in the coming years.
- Jeff
“Every record has been destroyed or falsified, every book rewritten, every picture has been repainted, every statue and street building has been renamed, every date has been altered. And the process is continuing day by day and minute by minute. History has stopped. Nothing exists except an endless present in which the Party is always right.” ― George Orwell, 1984
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