Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore

[Co-gnARR]

Been there, done that, took the same path as you. It is a complex situation. Sometimes women really are just testing the water- she craves that attention, needs to know she can attract other men, even if she has no intent of following through. Men do it as well- flirting with the waitress, the flight attendant, etc. Sometimes, though, I think it is more sinister- it is a mind game. She wants to know she can pull your strings, make you dance, not so much because she needs to feel validated, but because she’s manipulated men with the hint of sex, without providing, and she wants to practice on you. Sexuality is her tool set, much like intimidation and the threat of violence is a bully’s toolset. Women I knew professionally gave zero hint of interest until I put my wedding band on. Suddenly, I was the hot new guy on the scene. When I separated from my wife, I was old news.

[Adrenaline_6]

It's no different than dogs. We all compete for where they are on the totem pole. Whatever that totem pole represents.

With women, if a guy is married or taken, knowing that they can take that guy away puts them higher on the totem pole than the woman he is with on top of being hot enough to have the "skill set" to be able to accomplish the feat.

It's self gratification and self worth feeding their fragile egos. The more confident ones, don't need to do it.

Men are no different.

[Business_Casual]

I remember going on my best friend's bachelor weekend about 4 years ago. We went to a club in Atlantic City (I hate, hate, HATE clubs, but that's where the party was going for the night). A bachelorette party also happened to be there. I was standing off to the side of the dance floor, just kind of bored, when the bride-to-be, who was quite gorgeous, grabbed my hand and pulled me onto the floor and immediately began to grind herself on me. I backed up and pointed to my wedding ring and said "No, I'm married. I don't want to be grinding with other women." She pointed to her engagement ring and said "I'm engaged! It's not a big deal!" I said no thank you, and walked away. However, because I turned the bride down, the rest of the bachelorette party smelled blood in the water and all but one made it their mission to wear me down and get me to grind with one of them. The one who didn't was the smoking hot maid of honor. She tried a different tactic, acting like the rational, voice of reason compared to the rest of the drunk bridesmaids. She came up and stood REALLY close next to me and told me that it was really sweet that I loved my wife that much, but that she said I could lighten up and not worry so much because everyone was just having fun. She was still flirting heavily: Smiling, batting her eyes, biting her lip, etc. I don't think she was trying to get me to cheat, but she obviously wanted me to want to.

That gold band is an aphrodisiac! To women who are NOT my wife that is...

Not all heroes wear capes.

[BoringGuy45]

Not all heroes wear capes.

Lol, I don't think it had anything to with me being exceptionally charming or anything like that. I think the bride just saw a random guy she wanted to dance with and, in her drunken, horny state, she grabbed me. But once I made an issue of it, then it became a focal point for the rest of the bridal party to try and charm the married dude.

One of the other guys in our group, who's single, decided to go dance with her after I turned her down. He came back two minutes later and said, "Yeah, BoringGuy, good call. Your wife would have been pissed. The first thing that chick did was grab my cock."

[glocktogo]

Bear in mind your own shortcomings. I have a friend who has been married 5 times over a 30 year period and is currently divorced. He asked "what in the hell is wrong with women! Once you marry one, they become a huge PITA." I asked him what did all 5 marriages have in common? He replied "I sure as hell don't know." I did not bother pointing out he was the common factor.

Some people are better off single.

As my best friend's mom would say "His picker is broken."

[chuckman]

I remember going on my best friend's bachelor weekend about 4 years ago. We went to a club in Atlantic City (I hate, hate, HATE clubs, but that's where the party was going for the night). A bachelorette party also happened to be there. I was standing off to the side of the dance floor, just kind of bored, when the bride-to-be, who was quite gorgeous, grabbed my hand and pulled me onto the floor and immediately began to grind herself on me. I backed up and pointed to my wedding ring and said "No, I'm married. I don't want to be grinding with other women." She pointed to her engagement ring and said "I'm engaged! It's not a big deal!" I said no thank you, and walked away. However, because I turned the bride down, the rest of the bachelorette party smelled blood in the water and all but one made it their mission to wear me down and get me to grind with one of them. The one who didn't was the smoking hot maid of honor. She tried a different tactic, acting like the rational, voice of reason compared to the rest of the drunk bridesmaids. She came up and stood REALLY close next to me and told me that it was really sweet that I loved my wife that much, but that she said I could lighten up and not worry so much because everyone was just having fun. She was still flirting heavily: Smiling, batting her eyes, biting her lip, etc. I don't think she was trying to get me to cheat, but she obviously wanted me to want to.

That gold band is an aphrodisiac! To women who are NOT my wife that is...

I am in a profession that is (depending on which stats you like) 92%-94% female. There are a whole lotta divorced, horny cougars, they don't care if you are single, married, engaged, or what. I have been hit on so many time, propositioned, advertised to... and a nursing convention? Fuhhgetaboutit.... it's a bacchanal of Biblical proportions.

Me, I have never strayed. Oh, I have thought about it, but I haven't.

[Diamondback]

I am in a profession that is (depending on which stats you like) 92%-94% female. There are a whole lotta divorced, horny cougars, they don't care if you are single, married, engaged, or what. I have been hit on so many time, propositioned, advertised to... and a nursing convention? Fuhhgetaboutit.... it's a bacchanal of Biblical proportions.

Sounds like that's where we oughtta bus all the incels, that way everybody wins. The gals get some, the guys get some...

[chuckman]

Sounds like that's where we oughtta bus all the incels, that way everybody wins. The gals get some, the guys get some...

LOL. That would work.

I was in San Diego some years ago at the annual Emergency Nurses Association. During the day the convention is like any other. But starting around 9 pm, room doors on the host hotel's floors are open, and it's just one big-ass party. A dude would walk in a room, the door would close for 10 minutes, he'd come out and leave the door open. Since I am married I was looking for free booze (I was on per diem). I walked in one room, a dozen or so people in the room, they had mid-tier bourbon. A dude was telling me which of the bourbons were better/worse than the others, while he was getting a BJ. The chick finished, she got up and just left. He never stopped our conversation. This is literally every convention I would go to.

I am telling you, if I was single, I would absolutely be a nurse. Now that I am married, it's just a job.

[davidjinks]

Most women now a days are stuck up entitled bitches. No one wants to deal with that. Hence the reason guys say **** it when it comes to serious relationships and marriage.

I think that this guy is spot on. A piece of what he says....



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