Need some advice avoiding risking "Stolen Valor" situation

[Averageman]

Get a nice suit in the correct color, get an Air Force pin to put on the lapel. When asked you say the pin in worn to honor your grandfather and his service

Class and Taste.

[Bruce in WV]

He and I are the same USAF generation and the color of our Class A's hasn't been reused since the 70's. Call Ken-Lac tailors in San Antonio, they are THE experts on USAF uniforms for over 65 years, describe what you're trying to do, and get their advice. Note: the Air Force logo changed dramatically when they went to the current flying wings design. Use the legacy logo - the classic roundel - it'll really stand out as a heritage item.

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[Diamondback]

Thanks, guys. I've reached out to both Kel-Lac and one of the other majors asking for pointers, but right now (since I tend to prefer more 1940s-60s cuts and styles anyway) I'm thinking the Easy Button is just look for a navy blue 3-button in 44 Short/38x29, then tuck Grandpa's stripes into the lapel pocket and maybe wear a lapel pin of them.

[TBAR_94]

I think it's going to be hard to wear anything looking like AF service dress and not look like a goof. I think the best way to do what you want to do is with accessories--maybe a watch, or even something like these: https://www.vanguardmil.com/products...uds-hap-arnold.

[Stickman]

Get a nice suit in the correct color, get an Air Force pin to put on the lapel. When asked you say the pin in worn to honor your grandfather and his service

This. Over and over, I would go with this. I would absolutely NOT get a suit or anything else looking like someones duty uniform (not even a little close).

[chuckman]

Thanks, guys. I've reached out to both Kel-Lac and one of the other majors asking for pointers, but right now (since I tend to prefer more 1940s-60s cuts and styles anyway) I'm thinking the Easy Button is just look for a navy blue 3-button in 44 Short/38x29, then tuck Grandpa's stripes into the lapel pocket and maybe wear a lapel pin of them.

If I may, and I realize I may step on your toes here: per your measurements, you are challenged to not look like a blue rolly-poly. You are short, a bit of a belly (waist), and thick up top. I am not criticizing; I am 5'8, I wear a 44 short jacket, and 35/36x30 pants, so I am the same way.

If you have the gift of money, seek someone who can do a tailored/semi-tailored suit; at least the jacket. Otherwise you (and I) would look rumpled and off-the-rack because of our odd measurements. Also be careful of dated styles. Classic is good. Dated is not.

[LowSpeed_HighDrag]

I find myself needing to purchase a new suit, and my aunt bequested me a specific budget for it. (The will and estate are still being worked out, but an envelope bearing your name and a stated purpose with cash inside is a pretty clear indicator.) So, here's the rub... I already have a black one and my gal really likes the "MIB Look" on me, but other than with her I prefer to save that for funerals or "Serious Social Work" like should I find myself in the line of duty standing between someone entrusted to my overwatch and one who intends them harm again.

Anyway, in light of the role my grandfather played in raising me and his Air Force retiree buddies and peers had in helping make something resembling a man out of me, I thought it might be a fitting acknowledgment of that heritage to have my next suit loosely styled after what would have been Grandpa's last Service Dress Uniform when he ETS'ed after coming home from College Cadence in '68. (CC was a response to the Pueblo Incident, forward-deploying F-106 interceptor squadrons on six-month TDY's to Osan AB in Korea.) Problem is, how to "thread the needle" of clearly showing USAF influence while just as clearly NOT attempting to impersonate a servicemember? (For example, when I was reenacting the only insignia I would wear were the standard eagle on the cap and the rank I was depicting, not even branch-of-service.) So no "US" on the collars, not even Grandpa's old stripes on the sleeves, just plain undecorated blue.

Anyone in our veteran community have any advice about how to thread this needle and not have my intent to pay respect to my heritage create bigger problems?

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