While I've been fortunate to not have to deal with combat fatalities when I was with the FMF, there was a big difference in how I reacted when I treated the military and when I treated civilians. Most of my experience with patients dying were civilians and I would be far less upset then when I've seen my brother Marines, guys who I knew, would get badly hurt or be diagnosed with something horrible. It's a lot harder to be clinical when its guys you know. Kids are the only exception to this, I have a very hard time and so do many others when your patients are kids.
In general it's not a big deal for me. If you have to do your thing than by-and-large the person is having the worst day of their life and there was probably nothing I could have done to change the outcome. I don't think I ever doubted my skills, decisions or my training...no one else has either. I've done CPR dozens and dozens of times...I've never once seen it work. I do the best I can...and then I move on. I went inactive when I found myself hoping for certain patients (junkies, gangbangers) to die. There's a big difference treating civilians and military.
I have far more reaction when I pull out a save...sometimes the sweetest sound you've ever heard is a child screaming and crying.
Last edited by Gutshot John; 06-16-09 at 09:47.
It is bad policy to fear the resentment of an enemy. -Ethan Allen
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