
Originally Posted by
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What developed my mindset was getting into jiu-jitsu and muay thai. Being locked up and still fighting the hold instead of tapping(not to the point of injury) or being caught in a triangle or rear naked really brings out the sissy or the fighter. As does getting punched in the face or kicked in the ribs. Some people would come to train, get tested, and quit. Wouldn't matter if it was a big guy or small. Some had it, some didn't. I just don't like to lose. After a layoff due to a new baby, I can't wait to get started again.
I believe one either has it, or doesn't. Certain activities simply bring it out and hone it. Or, one could be placed into a situation where this personality trait is forced to emerge. Lack of emotional motivation would be a bad thing. This is completely different from allowing your emotions to control your decisions. Emotion for motivation i.e.- I hate to lose, This BG is not going to win, My kid needs me, Shooting well in training today may save my or a family members life one day, etc. is important but not allowing those emotions to affect good decision making is key. The emotion MUST be channeled.
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