
Originally Posted by
Watrdawg
For myself I think this has been cultivate by my life experiences. Being a military kid we moved or changes schools quite often. Being the shortest and most of the time the new kid on the block I was picked on quite a bit. To the point where I ended up fighting someone or multiple people at once a week or so. It became so bad that in 75 we were stationed at Ft. Ord CA and not only was I the new kid, the shortest and a minority. There were many a day that I had to fight multiple kids to get out of the bathroom and to class. I also wrestled from the 3rd grade all the way through high school and in the Army. The whole point of this is that life experiences can also cultivate a Warriors Mindset. My time in the Army just honed and directed it even more. To this day I have always had the mindset that you do whatever it takes to survive and protect the one's you care for. The only way I will lose a battle is if I am incapacitate to the point that I either cannot pull a trigger or throw a punch. I constantly evaluate everything going on around me so that hopefully I am not surprised by others trying to do harm. I train with my weapons and martial arts. I also try to keep my family prepared to act to whatever events. I try to teach my kids not to be a victim and prepare themselves also. They are 10, and 12 and have been in martial arts for the last 2 years. They also shoot all of my weapons and are very familiar with them. Hopefully I am cultivating that mindset in them and teaching them to focus it properly
I had similar experiences growing up in Detroit when gangs were all over the place in the late 70s. When confronted you had two choices, submit, get robbed and your ass kicked, or go down fighting and take out as many as you could. If you submitted, they would look for you again and often. If you fought, you may still get your ass kicked, but it gave you their respect for not being a pussy and gave you the satisfaction that you kicked some ass too.
On active duty, we called it "flipping the switch" (the psychological switch) from war to peace mode. In the war mode, you did what ever it took to accomplish the mission and get your guys home safe. When you were on the plane coming home, you flipped the switch to "peace" mode, in order to spare yourself from the effects mentally, your family and society, from your experiences. It also allowed you to tone down that aggression that has become instinct and was instrumental in dealing with PTSD. It didn't work for some, but those who felt the mission was worthy, believed in it, their training, the men in the unit, and had high confidence in the leadership, it worked.
Last edited by RogerinTPA; 01-03-11 at 18:41.
For God and the soldier we adore, In time of danger, not before! The danger passed, and all things righted, God is forgotten and the soldier slighted." - Rudyard Kipling
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