Something I want to point out is when I request civility I am doing so to prevent the slide of the thread into chaos, not because my tender feelings are at risk. The problem with a member objecting when they have been insulted is that the offender will then, more often than not take the "you are a crybaby" or "you are a whinny pussy" approach so, instead of shutting down the childish behavior, it has been given new energy. That's why I suggest a reprimand by a third party.




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