controlling stupidity

[QuietShootr]

I don't know how old you are, but lately it's en vogue for 21-year-old hotties to bang we old dudes.

Just sayin.

[Suwannee Tim]

Time.

Always worked for me.

[kal]

Anytime I have problems here's what I do...

Distance yourself away from problem permanently, regroup/rebuild, move on.

[C4IGrant]

Thanks for the replies gentlemen. Great advise.

The point of this post was to help me control my stupidity. I am not trying to control her. I fully understand the stupid decisions I make. I just don't know how not to be an idiot. She has a switch installed in my neck that turns off all rational brain function. Logic, reason, and intelligent thought are immediately dismissed.

I am ashamed that I would let anyone have that level of influence in my life. This is the part that seems out of my control. This is the part that I need to get a hold of.

Most of the time, I am just fine. every once in a while she get in range enough to flip the idiot switch. As soon as the switch was flipped off yesterday, I returned to normal and kicked myself for groveling. Today is like the past week never happened.

I know there are other guys out there who are too proud, or scared to speak up who are going through worse periods than I am. I hope this helps them too.

Are you sure that switch is located in your neck?

Move on and limit your contact with her. Be polite, but nothing that would allow her to move into range of your "Switch."


C4

[willowofwisp]

I vote for titty bar! or just a night out with some guys..

[pilotguyo540]

Gentlemen, Thank you for your replies! Everyone had very good points to make. I am formulating a plan as we speak. I will be in Europe next week, so party on! I had no idea about the 21 year old hotty thing. I am not yet 30, so I don't know if I am old enough

All joking aside, RogerinTPA hit upon how serious this can get. I have not been that bad off in over a year and a half. If anyone is that bad off, call the suicide hotline. 1 800 273 8255 What have you got to lose? It does get better.

Thank God I am way past that. If it can happen to me, it can happen to you. It can happen to anybody.

Thanks again.